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Delfin Dahlia

Delfine (she/her) is a Barcelona-based performer, writer, and sex-positive educator whose work in the XO Creators Hub centers on non-monogamysex parties, and navigating pleasure in community with care and clarity. With years of experience inside Europe’s sex-positive scenes, Delfine brings a grounded, realistic approach to the complexities of open relationships, desire, and conscious play.

Delfine will share her knowledge,  exploring key topics such as jealousy, boundaries, relationship dynamics, consent at play parties, and the emotional labor behind ethical non-monogamy. Her work is rich with personal experience, practical tools, and a welcoming tone that invites learners of all backgrounds—whether curious, questioning, or deeply immersed in the lifestyle.

She’s passionate about demystifying what non-monogamy can look like beyond the clichés, focusing instead on communication, self-awareness, and building trust in evolving dynamics. Her teachings are direct, non-judgmental, and always sex-positive—encouraging viewers to explore their own erotic blueprints in a way that feels authentic and empowering.

Delfine’s videos are designed to support both individuals and couples on their journeys toward more open, expansive relationships—reminding us that there’s no “perfect” way to do non-monogamy, only conscious, evolving ways to do it well.

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